Hair Piece Blues

My earlier post about smelly hair systems generated a lot of good responses…

I loved yesterday’s question on the smelly hair system. It does not even compare to my problem. I have already found the secrets to keeping it from smelling decent, but that does not deal with the ladies when they want access to my head. I am working the internet dating scene and this problem is killing me. I find myself fearing the intimacy that I fantasize about. Now it is not fantasy, but a pending nightmare each and every time I start up a new relationship. If I do not wear the hair piece, I can not be myself. How does one deal with the no-touch zone that puts the fear of God into the rug wearer when a woman wants to run her fingers through the piece?

When a man embraces a woman, there is a tendency for the woman to want to run her fingers through her man’s hair. This is a deal breaker for hair system wearers and it puts them on-guard every time they establish a new relationship, often impacting behavoir as the wearer tenses up during intimate moments. I have spoken to many men and this is a common problem. The answer is that the rug wearer needs to keep one hand free at all times to fend off the roaming hands of the woman. It does put the kybosh on the freedoms one wants in real intimacy and it excludes such activities as bathing, swimming and the like. I have found that these problems are not addressed well in long term relationships either. I have done hair transplants on men whose wives have told me that they have never seen their husband without his wig on, not even after 30 years of marriage. I am afraid there is no real answer. Every hair system can be felt, even with the best of weaves. The only real answer to this question is a good hair transplant.