Female Hair Loss

Hiya, I am a 35 year old female and heartbroken. January of this year my hair changed from healthy, quite greasy really, to dry as a bone and unmanageable. Getting worse at every wash, dryer and dryer. Had all the tests done by my gp. Hormone, thyroid, everything was ok. Now my hair pulls out with the gentlest of brushing, snaps in my hands, and my scalp is showing on my part. My fringe has shriveled to nothing and my hair looks like it has been burnt mainly at the front. I have developed a receding hair line in a classic M shape, and have thick black hairs that seem to just grow everywere all over my head. The texture is that of pubic hair. My hair no longer feels like hair, it is so dry when i touch my scalp it crunches. I have conditioner on it, but nothing seems to help. I have started taking vitamins and my hair feels like it is coated with a sticky dry residue now. Seems to be able to help. I am not a vain person, I am nothing special, but to see myself like this is breaking my heart. Please can you offer some idea as to what the problem is? I am spending hours just sitting in front of the mirror in tears. I no longer recognise the person looking back any more. My marriage is suffering and i am finding it difficult to go out. I feel like everyone is looking at me. My self image is on the floor. Please please can you give any ideas as to what the problem is? My hair seems to be shrinking, not growing, apart from the back which seems to be unaffected. So far you are my last hope. Please please can you help?

This is not something that I can manage over the phone or through an email. You need to be managed by a competent doctor and possibly a good/great hair stylist for the topical management of the fragile hair. Please, find the appropriate people to look after you. Do not become your own doctor or hair specialist. I would suggest using the ISHRS site as a good place to search for a local doctor.