Losing hair and angry, nervious, frustrated and frightened. Is this normal?

Yes, what you are experiencing is normal. You are angry with your reality, while so many male friends do not have the problem. In addition, many of the posts on various forums are frightening. I always tell my patients they must learn to ignore the scare tactics many individuals post on various forums. Reach out to a good doctor and ask that doctor about these drugs and what you really have to worry about.